Slick, 4 April 2016-13 June 2026

Jun. 13th, 2026 01:59 pm
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Slick, aka Facecat, aka Licky Slicky, aka Editorial Assistant Cat, aka My Obnoxious Freaky Boy, aka The Creature, collapsed suddenly yesterday afternoon with what appeared to be catastrophic asthmatic pneumonia. (He has had the not-uncommon chronic feline sniffle for some time.) He was a good boy and came to his humans when he noticed things were badly wrong, and we got him to the hospital, but he declined abruptly around 3am. I got the kids up so we could troop over to the hospital to say goodbye. The younger two remained in the ICU while we eased the inevitable.

Slick is survived by his full sister Lilybelle and his adopted brother and sparring partner, Robin, as well as his shellshocked human family.

He was a good boy. Every time I talked to the vets, they said what a good boy he was. He loved getting up in my business and poking me in the face. He didn't know how to sit on laps so he would stand on people and rearrange frequently. Sometimes he would sort of crouch on my lap so that he could lick my fingers while I was typing and try to chew on my knuckles. He got on top of all kinds of furniture. When we were away for a week the catsitter called partway through in a panic saying he hadn't been seen, and we found him chilling on top of some shelving in the basement storage all "What? You know I don't like strangers." He had finally started chilling out and letting people who don't live here see and even pet him. He loved halves of plastic Easter eggs and would sing about them and play cat hockey with him. He was the best cat at understanding English. I could tell him "Timmy is not in the well" and he would stop yelling at me. He sounded, as KJ would say, like a squeaky door hinge. He used to spend a lot of time in the basement ceiling, and it's possible that old insulation up there is why he was asthmatic. The other cats would beg for protein scraps when people were making dinner (well, Robin begged; Lil would steal whatever Robin got) but his response to such things was, "What do you think I am, an animal?" Sometimes he did an adequate job of pretending to have a dignity, even though it was a lie. His belly was not a trap; he denied all existence of bellies. He had a white Superman-shield shaped shirtfront and two white stripes on his front right toe.

He was a good boy.

Today

Jun. 12th, 2026 02:02 pm
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Today is my granddaugther's birthday. M is one year old today!

It sort of kills me that I post no pictures of her. You'll just have to take my word for it: she is adorable.
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Wound care, for me, is love.

In his battle with lymphoma, Rob had a large tumor removed from his scalp--several times, as it tended to grow back. As part of his care, I was taught by the nurses at Mayo Clinic how to dress it several times a week as it healed, which took months.

The first time I did it, I could barely bring myself to go through the motions, afraid of hurting him, of even looking at the area.

But gradually, what at first had been intimidating became bearable and finally routine, just part of the way I cared for him. It was hands-on, part of the way I interacted with the physicality of what he was going through, and yes, part of the way I showed him that I loved him.

In the past couple of years, as my mother has aged, my siblings and I have all stepped up to be more hands-on in assisting her. One of the things I personally do is to help her with her shower once a week. As I was already doing that, and I had experience because of the assistance I gave Rob, I was the natural person to take on the role when her fragile skin on one of her legs developed a tear. Blood flow becomes less robust in elderly skin, so healing can be slow.

It's been three months, and I'm still dressing an area on her calf once a week (the other two times a week she is helped by a visiting nurse who changes the dressing).

In the past week, this took a bit more attention. The change in my schedule due to a medical procedure I was undergoing meant I had to coordinate with the visiting nurses to arrange a change to all three dates that we did the wound care over the course of the week. The nurse and I also consulted with her physician this week: was her ankle swelling a bit too much? What to do about the dry skin? Was the wound stable, or was there an infection?

I don't mind doing wound care. It feels, in fact, like a way I show my mother love. She cared for me as a baby in the most personal way possible. Now each week after I help her with her shower, I rub lotion on her skin and help her dress. And every week, I give her a foot rub before pulling out the latex gloves, the scissors, the cleansing spray, the emulsifying wrap, and the gauze and get to work. The foot massage is not only to increase the blood flow to her feet, but a way to give her my touch, to give her comfort, and to remind her, each and every week, that she is being cared for by those who love her.

Image description: Background: various medical implements used in wound care. Left: a pair of hands wearing latex gloves hold a two-foot length of medical gauze. Behind the medical gauze: a pair of feet of an elderly woman, crossed casually at the ankles. Bottom: the hand of an elderly woman holds a caregiver's hand.

Wound Care

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a quick sketch of an update post

Jun. 10th, 2026 05:03 am
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There were thunderstorms going flickaflick kaBOOMba in the Twin Cities much of the night, so I am awake. Now that doesn't mean awake enough to make a proper post on how things are, but here's the basic stuff:

On May 10, I unexpectedly surfed down a collapsing retaining wall which then yeeted me headfirst into the side of the house. I got a concussion and a double-fractured ankle. And now I'm recuperating.

It was a short retaining wall, which is a great piece of luck, because things could have been so much worse. Even at the height of a couple of feet or so, like it was. There were a lot of important bits of good luck. Those stories are for later, though. For now, I'm just waving at everybody here and saying hi, I'm still here! Some of you have heard already, and have been kind and have helped get me to the ER, the ortho team, the imaging people, and all the rest, and there are not enough words to express this gratitude, but THANK YOU SO MUCH.

And now, probably sleep time. Again. It's remarkable how much sleep a person can need when recuperating from fractures or concussions, or both.

(And I hope you are having a much more pleasantly calm spring/summer yourself!)

2026 52 Card Project: Week 22: Quiet

Jun. 6th, 2026 11:35 am
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I had a medical procedure scheduled for this past week, but I was uncertain whether it would be able to go forward because of my cough. If the anaesthesiologist said the cough was too severe, it would be canceled.

Accordingly, my priority this past week was quiet and rest, trying to get my cough to calm down. Annoyingly, the air quality in the Twin Cities remained problematic, so I couldn't sit outside on my porch.

So I stayed behind shut doors, near my air filters. I took showers with shower bombs infused with peppermint and eucalyptus. I drank oceans of tea to try to calm my coughing. I ate cough drops until I was sick of the taste. I curtailed my exercise.

I simply rested.

(My efforts were successful and I underwent the procedure last Thursday. I was recovering yesterday, which is why this collage is a day late.)

Image description: A door is ajar at night. Light outlines the crack, but the opposite of the door is a field of stars. An owl at rest sits peacefully in the lower left corner, eyes closed. Upper left corner: a blooming white poppy (signifying rest) with a glowing full moon shining at its center.

Quiet

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Per the Associated Press, Defense Department slashes its religious designations list from more than 200 choices to 31:
specifically removing Unitarians )

As a veteran of the United States Navy, and as a member of a Unitarian Universalist congregation, I am ... displeased, to put things mildly. As near as I can tell, the practical effects of this decision will be (a) belittling faiths rejected from the official list and (b) making it more difficult for chaplains of those faiths to reach out and minister to their co-religionists. Neither of those are what I'd call a good reason to pull a stunt like this.

[1] No, I'm not going to call it the Department of War on Donald Trump's say-so. Maybe if Congress actually passes a law renaming the department ...
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Countenance



I would say
This world
Is not crushing me
Yet

Except—

Every muscle
In my face
Is knots,
Like I live
In a wince
From the searing
Light
Of scrutiny.

And the pain
And the pull
Is wrecking
The sweetness
Of my voice.

[ gaming ] Wondering the Grey Mists

May. 31st, 2026 07:07 pm
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Dramatis Personae:

Celyn, who is perhaps unfortunately in his element (chaos and fairy nonsense)
Robin, who wants to go home
with Greymalkin, who wants his wings back
Izgil, who wants to know things
Viepuck, who was falling back on faking it and improv

When we left the party we were deciding what to do after demolishing a redcap fortress.

There were a lot of trophies in the trophy room, many of them grisly. )

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